- Influencer Wizarab sparked discussions on social media with his reaction to a viral video.
- The video features Veekee James surprising her husband, Femi Atere, for his 33rd birthday.
- The surprise celebration occurred on May 14, 2025.
Popular influencer Wizarab has stirred discussion on social media following his reaction to a video showing fashion designer Veekee James surprising her husband, Femi Atere, on his 33rd birthday.
The celebration took place on Tuesday, May 14, 2025. To mark the occasion, Veekee arranged an emotional surprise, which was captured on video and widely shared online. In the clip, Femi is seen being led blindfolded into a room filled with balloons, visibly moved by the gesture.
While many praised the surprise as touching and romantic, Wizarab offered a contrasting opinion on X (formerly Twitter), where he commented:
“It is not cute. I don’t know one man who likes this. Some things are just feminine. Treat a man like a man. She is treating him the way she wants to be treated, not how a man should be treated.”
His statement quickly went viral, prompting mixed reactions. Some users supported his view, arguing it reflected traditional masculinity, while others defended Veekee’s approach, saying love should be expressed freely without gender constraints.
The incident has reignited discussions around gender norms, emotional expression, and personal preferences in relationships.
See the tweet and video here:
See some comments below:
@Manapasta:“You’re absolutely right to point out that there is a difference between how women want to be treated and how men need to be treated in a relationship. Masculine and feminine energies are different, and when that balance is off, especially when a woman steps into a dominant, controlling role, it often leaves the man feeling disrespected or unseen… Men thrive on feeling needed, respected, and trusted to lead in their own way. When a woman treats a man the way she wants to be treated, emotionally, communicatively, or even practically, it can come off as smothering or even emasculating, even if it’s well-intentioned… At the end of the day, a man doesn’t want to feel like a project, a pet, or a subordinate, he wants to feel like the man of the relationship. That means being respected for his strengths, allowed space to lead, and valued for his masculine presence… Veekee James has repeatedly ignored this last part in most of the videos have seen them together, it’s no longer about “if” but rather about when he starts to feel the disgust, either way, we will be here…!!!”
@01_spatherapist:“She should stop bringing her family out like posting her marriage online always.”
@dera_theking:“I disagree, he just married a woman that loves him. Most times it’s the other way round. Men marrying women they love, who don’t love them back as much.”
@_Roofman2131gh:“She obviously knows him better than we do and besides those balloon colors ain’t feminine colors. If they were pink then you’d have a point. The things she bought him are typical of what a man wants.On my birthday, I just play playstation with my guys and maybe have little drinks and food. The game dey pass everything.”
@itrackNG:“This is another problem low value men who marry and are fed by richer women face. She becomes masculine and even if the man isn’t comfortable, he can’t speak because she’s the bread winner. A man is far better marrying an illiterate than a masculine woman who is also the bread winner.”
