- A recently married woman expressed feelings of loneliness in a TikTok post.
- She has not heard from her friends since her wedding day.
- The bride finds it hard to articulate her emotional struggles.
A woman, recently married, has tearfully expressed her feelings of loneliness, revealing that she has not heard from her friends since her wedding day. In a heartfelt post shared on TikTok, she admitted to having difficulty articulating the emotional turmoil she’s been experiencing.
The new bride shared that, since tying the knot, she has noticed a noticeable drop in communication from those closest to her, with texts and calls becoming increasingly rare. She described the isolation as a unique form of loneliness, feeling as though her presence is no longer wanted by her friends.
In part of her statement, she said, “There’s this emptiness, loneliness that comes after getting married. I feel like there’s this feeling you get after the wedding because, subconsciously, your friends tend to shift away from you.”
“Your family assumes you now have your own home, so they give you space. And now, you’re trying to bond with a new family. I feel like it shouldn’t be like that. I mean, nothing really changed, I only got married. You shouldn’t stop calling me, you shouldn’t stop texting me.”
Her emotional words ignited a strong sense of concern, leading many to quickly comment with their thoughts and encouragement.
See some reactions below:
@Ceo honey 🎉🇳🇬: “Una dy confuse person make we marry or not ?”
@omorilewa💕💕: “Omoh introvert no they feel anything I don’t even like people around me make I just they abeg !”
@RuthMG: “I experience this too the first few months, I channeled myself into my goals and started looking for a job with the NHS. Landed a job and now I’m working on transitioning into tech. It will pass?”
@Alluring libra being ⚖️🥰♎️🍒: “I can’t relate sha once am home with my husband nobody else matter.”
@MRS. I 🤍💍❤️: “Especially for those who moved with their spouse to another new environment, that they are not familiar with.”
@lilian: “Am an introvert 🤣🤣🤣 nothing concern me with loneliness , my phone it’s my friend , I don’t even have friends.”
@Queen 👑: “omo like this is me 😭😭 moved to Nsugbe Anambra state and I haven’t made friends for d past 2years. the loneliness is draining,no gals outing it has just been hubby.”
@Foxy-Joycee: “Get a job, so you be going out and to back in the evening, get busy with something and I bet you the little time you have , you would just want to sleep and wouldn’t want anyone to disturb you 😂.”
@Chantel: “People say that married women cut their friends off, but the truth is that, single ladies isolate themselves from married women, cause they feel they don’t fit in anymore. Once you say you’re married.”
@THRIFT VENDOR NIGERIA 🇳🇬: “I understand your pain, married women let make friends among ourselves, stop doing age differences, stop acting rich and proud,don’t look down on other married women just bcoz you get money or stuffs.”
@Kay🥰dee💄: “People say ladies get married and change but it’s not really through, after my engagement I chatted my friend let’s go out and she told Me she doesn’t have any business with a married woman, I felt It.”
See post here:
https://www.tiktok.com/@enweregraxe/video/7485454173287353605
