“Make una avoid my DM” – Nkechi Blessing fumes after man asked her for a ‘secret affair’



  • Nigerian actress Nkechi Blessing publicly criticized a man who stormed her DM, asking her of having a secret affair.
  • The statement follows a recent statement that she and her young lover, Xxssive, are no longer together.


Nkechi Blessing, a renowned Nigerian actress, has publicly shared a conversation in which she criticizes a man who approached her via direct message, proposing a clandestine relationship. This incident follows recent reports suggesting that she has parted ways with her younger partner, Xxssive.

The actress took to her Instagram account to disclose a bold message she received from an admirer. In his communication, the man expressed that he has been a long-time fan of Nkechi Blessing, stating his desire for a secret affair with her.

He conveyed his admiration, saying, “I’ve been following Since 2020, and love about wish that young man by your side who makes you haws’, mind if a secret affair until you’re ready to unveil me, but just Want to be that guy by your side”

In response, Nkechi Blessing vehemently condemned the man for his audacity in sending such a message.

Reacting to the post….

@___victoiree said: “How can I laugh in a way that will please God?”

@zinnys_thriftlagos remarked: “Everybody go reach NK just relax E never reach your turn,but you can’t by showing off”

@kiitfoundation commented: “Where do people buy audacity?”

@snowcookie__ wrote: “Unveil you cos you’re a project Abi new business”

@adeyemifoye penned: “Is Blessing fault. This same way was how xessive met her. If she has not disclosed how she met xessive probably the guy won’t have tried it with her”

@blackgirl_lala19 noted: “The urhobo guy get work when dem begin date nkechi calm down this might be your true lover don’t play”