- The wife questions double standards after her husband’s infidelity is overlooked, but her single affair sparks outrage.
- The woman utilized a relationship platform to express her distress over her situation.
A frustrated wife has called out what she describes as a glaring double standard in how her infidelity was treated compared to her husband’s repeated betrayals.
Sharing her story anonymously on a relationship platform, the woman revealed that her husband had cheated on her at least 12 times over the course of their marriage. During that time, he fathered two children outside their union and exposed her to multiple sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Despite enduring the pain and humiliation, she said no serious family meetings were ever held to address his behavior. She chose to stay, hoping to preserve the marriage.
However, after deciding to cheat just once and taking precautions by using protection. The reaction from both her husband and family members was swift and severe. Since her confession, she claims the family has held several meetings to shame her, while ignoring her husband’s long history of infidelity.
She wrote …
“Hi Auntie Momoza. Please keep me anonymous. My husband cheated on me 12 times that I know of. He made 2 kids outside our marriage and we are taking care of them. I got at least 4 STIs from him. No family meeting was called and I stayed. I cheated on him once…just once and I used protection. We have been attending family meetings every week since then and I’m called names. I didn’t fall pregnant, I didn’t get him sick…nothing. Why am I being vilified and he’s not?”
Her story has sparked online discussions around gender inequality in relationships, with many condemning the selective outrage often directed at women in situations of mutual wrongdoing.
In other news, A dramatic scene unfolded as a Nigerian man stormed a pastor’s office with police officers, demanding a refund of ₦1 million he claimed to have mistakenly transferred to the church.
The incident, captured on video and shared on social media platform X by user @chukwe, has since gone viral and sparked widespread reactions.
According to reports, the man intended to send ₦100,000 to the church’s account but mistakenly added an extra zero, transferring ₦1 million instead. Upon realizing the error, he reached out to the pastor to request a refund of the excess ₦900,000.
However, the pastor allegedly refused to return the money, telling the man it was a “spiritual matter” and advising him to “go to court” if he wanted the funds back.
“Go to court and collect it,this is a spiritual matter,” the pastor said in part.
In the now-viral video, the man can be seen confronting the pastor in his office while accompanied by uniformed police officers. Despite the law enforcement presence, the pastor remained adamant about not issuing a refund.
The bizarre response has triggered heated online debates about ethics, accountability, and financial transparency in religious institutions.
