A 22-year-old Nigerian lady narrates how a 36-year-old man she met through her mum’s friend blasted her after she refused to come to his house two days after they met for the first time.
This is contained in a long video she made available on her page via a popular social media platform, TikTok.
In the video, she mentioned that her mother had recently told her that a friend of hers had a discussion with a man who revealed that he was in need of a lady to marry.
After considering it, she asked her mother to give the man her number so he could reach out to her.
The lady mentioned that she learned the man’s age during their first meeting at his office, and he gave her the sum of ₦6,000 after dropping her off.
She went on to add that just two days after they met, the man asked her to come to his house to get to know her better.
However, she felt it was too early and told him this.
The man responded, saying he needed to know her better, how she cooks, and also for her to get to know him very well.
However, the lady turned him down.
Following this, he began accusing her of looking for an already-made man and a place where she wouldn’t sow but could reap.
Her statement: “One Sunday when I just got back from church, I received a call from my mum. My mum was telling me about how one of her friends was talking to a man who said he needed a lady and wanted to settle down.”
“I was already getting mad at my mum. I really didn’t want you to be doing things like this.”
“After a second thought, I was like, tell your friend that she can give the man my number so we can talk. We started talking, myself and the man, and he told me he was in his mid-30s. I think he said 36 going on 37.”
“I was already losing it because I’m 22, and the age gap was too much. I really didn’t want to do this, but since it’s my mum and her friend, I believed they knew what was best for me.”
“When I started talking to this man, I didn’t like how our conversation went. He’s older than me, so we’re going to disagree a lot. I was like, let me manage. I can’t continue to shut people down.”
“When I got back to Abuja, he asked me to come to his office to meet him. I said no problem, and went to his office. We started talking, then we went to get food, and he asked me what I’d like to do after service.”
“I told him everything, and he was impressed. He then told me that he recently created an application and wanted me to use my knowledge to promote it, and also that he was going to pay me.”
“He decided to drop me off, and when he did, he squeezed ₦6,000 into my hand. I wasn’t expecting him to give me anything. From the onset, he had already struck me as one of those men who like to know you before they can give you money.”
“When I got home, we started texting, and two days after, he texted me asking me to come to his house. I said, ‘Isn’t it too early for you to be inviting me to your house?’ He replied, ‘Why are you acting like you’re a baby?’”
She made several other statements in the video, revealing that the man began using some harsh words against her just because she told him she wasn’t going to come to his house, as it was too soon.
Many individuals who came across the video stormed the comment section of the post to share their thoughts.
See some reactions below:
Mo🦋: “You’ll be trying to consider them until you see why they’re unmarried at that age.”
Saychidera: “The guy no talk most of the things you said.”
classictunes_1: “Leave story you don marry now? SMH.”
veezay0: “Omo see as I feel old hearing 30+ men😭😭 few years ago I was in my 20s. Life too fast.”
Amaka Baby💕: “My mama and her friend dey connect rubbish!.”
Martins_Ezeji: “mummy Oyibo should stop this kind ok matchmaking o😂😂 at the right time everything will fall in place.”
Godswill Louis💯 🇧🇪: “Babe so you dumped me for the man 😔.”
Iniobong 🍁🌕: “lmaooo ask your mum’s friends them don collect money for your head already. he has so much audacity, this is not about being 30+.”
Portharcourt Food Vendor: “I swear no be so we dey do am for here, for here we no dey do that kind thing. he is not informed 😂😂.”
Tobby_Ceaser: “Not all men are like that. Don’t generalize else you might just miss the right person. Keep searching.”
Abimbola 👸: “I don’t know what they gain by asking a lady to come over to their house 😂.”
princechi416: “the source of money making is a lifestyle that nurse people for a long time.just like social media lifestyle.its shaping another generation.”
Dikeogu: “Una dey look for already made men, it’s hard for y’all to put up with your age mate because of hypergamy 😂😂.”
Christopher: “All this rules are for pple women don’t care about. Y’all crave communications and when you get one you’ll still complain. I want an intentional man boom intentional man appears and he’s being too fast. You never was interested and that’s the summary 😂💯.”
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